“There’s not enough time in the day.”
“I’m too busy at work.”
“I’m exhausted at the end of the day.”
“My weekends are too hectic to plan and cook for the week.”
“I’m too out of shape to start lifting weights.”
I empathize with you (no, really; I do!). Life is hard. And all of these are real, valid reasons for not being able to achieve that ideal body.
But whatever your reason is, it’s not the real reason you haven’t done it.
The real reason is that you haven’t made achieving an exceptional physique a priority - a MUST.
There are certain things in your life that are non-negotiables - no matter how harried, how stressed, how strapped you are for time, these things get done.
Some examples include:
- Brushing your teeth every morning
- Bathing
- Spending time with your children
It’s important to note that none of these things are things you have to do everyday - you certainly could get by without bathing everyday (although it would be more noticeable with some of us than others) - but if you’re like most people, these activities are performed daily, without fail. You probably do them without conscious intention.
What’s most fascinating is what happens if, for some obscure reason, you miss a day (too rushed in the morning, so you forget to brush your teeth). The discomfort is more than just mental - you get a palpable, physical sense of unease. It’s almost as if your body misses the routine task.
The same must be true for your efforts in the gym and at each meal. How far would you get in your career if, upon awakening, you skipped out on work because you just didn’t feel like it? Exercise (particularly strength training) must be similarly non-negotiable.
You’ve got to make working out a habit. Eating right has to be done almost without conscious intention. Anecdotally, this rings true; most people, once they’ve adopted a more healthful style of eating, feel physically unwell upon eating junk food.
When you decide to make fitness and health a non-negotiable; if you give your intentions power by writing them down, scheduling workouts, visualizing your outcome, and setting goals, an interesting thing will happen.
Your workouts will be done. You will begin to eat more healthfully. You’ll make progress.
And you’ll end up stronger, fitter, and healthier.